When your relationship changes, what happens to your Will?

Trusts, Asset Protection & Estate Planning
Jun 14 2022
Married? Separated? Somewhere in between? Your relationship status changes the validity, or otherwise, of your Will. So too does the death of a former partner. Read on to find out what you need to do, and when, to ensure you protect your assets.

As your circumstances change, it is important to ensure the terms of your Will reflect your current wishes. It’s a good idea to review your Will after important events in your life such as a change in relationship status, changes in your financial situation, the purchase or sale of property, or births/deaths of family members. 

This is not only to ensure your wishes are up to date, but because some life events can revoke or invalidate provisions in your Will, and this can have unintended and unfortunate consequences. 

What could make a Will invalid? 

A number of things can make your Will or parts of it invalid, including: 

  1. If you have married or entered into a civil union or ended those relationships; 
  2. If the Will is not signed and witnessed properly; 
  3. If there was some undue pressure on you when you made your Will; 
  4. If you were not of sound mind or under age when you made the Will. 
  5. In the case of Māori land, if the land is given to someone who is not entitled to it. 

Also, parts of a Will may be invalid if they are so unclear that they cannot be interpreted with certainty.  

Defacto

Entering into a new relationship (not formalised by marriage) does not have any effect on your Will. However, over time your partner may develop rights to some of your assets. If you have a Will that does not acknowledge your defacto partner, this could be challenged after your death. Updating your Will (along with considering appropriate relationship property arrangements), is sensible whether you decide to get married or not.

Marriage or Civil Union

The law assumes that any Will you make prior to marrying or entering a civil union is no longer suitable after marriage/civil union. Therefore, your Will is automatically revoked by the Wills Act. This of course, ignores the reality that the majority of relationships start on a defacto basis for quite some time. Despite this somewhat backwards assumption, this means you need to do a new Will once you are married or in a civil union.

  1. If you have recently married, your Will made prior to your marriage is automatically void. 
  2. If you were to die without a valid Will, your estate would be distributed according to the rules of ‘intestacy’ set out in the Administration Act. This may not be in the way you intended. 
  3. The exception to this is if your Will was made while you were planning on getting married, and your Will states it was made “in contemplation” of your marriage to your partner. 
Separation or Divorce 
  1. Unlike marriage, separation does not revoke a Will. If your ex-partner was named in a Will you made prior to your separation, that ex-partner may still benefit under your Will. 
  2. If you obtain a separation order or an order dissolving a marriage or civil union from the Family Court some provisions in your will become void. The Will must be read as if your ex-partner died before you. Any gift to your ex- partner or appointment of your ex-partner will be void. 
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